Hope is something when we believe some event has a probability of happening in near or distant future and acknowledging side by side that It may not happen at all, When reality rears its ugly head, and we accept that the thing we were hoping and expecting didnt happen it leads to big disappointment, and…
One of the best lessons I learned about hope from my encounter with a beautiful person is about Hope.
Hope is a very tricky thing we all humans possess.
Let’s start with understanding when and why we hope.
we all are unsatisfied with something or other at every point of our life.
The greater the fear and confusion the greater we hope.
however, hope leads to expectations which lead to disappointment right?
we will see if the above statement is correct
hope is something when we believe some event has a probability of happening in near or distant future and acknowledging side by side that It may not happen at all,
that there is very little chance, the thing we are hoping can happen
while the expectation is defined as believing that even if there is a slight chance, it will happen.
and when reality rears its ugly head, and we accept that the thing we were hoping and expecting didn’t happen it leads to big disappointment, and…
we lose our faith on hope.
So the only way to retain our faith on hope is to hope but not expecting anything at all.
however simple the above statement seems it is the most difficult thing to practice,
to keep away expectations from hope is to keep away two people with one soul 😉
It’s painful, and it’s awful.
so the next time u hope something starts practicing this question.
What I am expecting is it feasible, is it actually probable and possible.
To keep the heart unwrinkled, to be hopeful, kindly, cheerful, and reverent: that is the triumph over old age.
Thomas Aldrich
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